I have an issue where I do not care to discuss men with my girl friends much. It’s probably one of the reasons why I don’t have that many girl friends.  I just do not care to spend that much time over-analyzing someone else’s mate/non-mate.  Every conversation do not have to be about men.  Occasionally I would be snoopy and inquire, but that’s likely because the person in question do not talk about it constantly.  It’s not as if something I say will sway the decision and aren’t there simply more goddamned interesting topics?